Friday, February 20, 2015

Love, Demands and Distance in between Loved ones

"Love lies in distance, 
 when you come close; there is possibility of distraction due to demands"...Hrc

What is Love?
Caring for someone, complete surrender towards someone, share happiness to loved one without thinking about his nature or actions of past, be committed to someone etc is Love. Definition of love changes according to environment and ability to observer environment or situation.

What is Distraction?
Distraction can be anything which destroys your ability to observe situation and take proper action. 
When you are talking with someone and your focus on talk got distracted by activity of someone; which made you angry, this distraction of anger doesn't help you to be connected with subject of talk.
When you demand for your success and you doesn't got your success position, this desire of demand distracts you from proper way of applying efforts, smart work for success.

How love lies in distance?
Love for anyone in your life, it may be for your parents, friends, pet etc. becomes more stronger when you miss them. When you are close with loved one, your attraction towards him/her may be lesser than when are at long distance from loved one. When you are at long distance, you miss him/her and love becomes more stronger.
Distance is not always of physical position of body, it can be distance of 'thoughts similarity' or anything which made you both not to talk though you meet each other on daily basis.

So, when you and your loved one are at distance, your attraction and love towards him/her increases. So, distance for sometime from loved one is useful always.
But when you come close, don't raise any demand from loved one, otherwise demands will distract you from love.

Moral is:"Distance for sometime from loved one can make love more stronger than before. Demands from loved one may distract you from love and create distance. But can stop this circulation by stooping your desires of demands from Love one and enjoy life with loved one."    

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