Love, Demands and Distance in between Loved ones

"Love lies in distance, 

 when you come close; there is possibility of distraction due to demands"...Hrc

What is Love?

Caring for someone, complete surrender towards someone, share happiness to loved one without thinking about his nature or actions of past, be committed to someone etc is Love. Definition of love changes according to environment and ability to observer environment or situation.

What is Distraction?

Distraction can be anything which destroys your ability to observe situation and take proper action. 

When you are talking with someone and your focus on talk got distracted by activity of someone; which made you angry, this distraction of anger doesn't help you to be connected with subject of talk.

When you demand for your success and you doesn't got your success position, this desire of demand distracts you from proper way of applying efforts, smart work for success.

How love lies in distance?

Love for anyone in your life, it may be for your parents, friends, pet etc. becomes more stronger when you miss them. When you are close with loved one, your attraction towards him/her may be lesser than when are at long distance from loved one. When you are at long distance, you miss him/her and love becomes more stronger.

Distance is not always of physical position of body, it can be distance of 'thoughts similarity' or anything which made you both not to talk though you meet each other on daily basis.

So, when you and your loved one are at distance, your attraction and love towards him/her increases. So, distance for sometime from loved one is useful always.

But when you come close, don't raise any demand from loved one, otherwise demands will distract you from love.

Moral is:"Distance for sometime from loved one can make love more stronger than before. Demands from loved one may distract you from love and create distance. But can stop this circulation by stooping your desires of demands from Love one and enjoy life with loved one."    

Endless nature of Life with Endless Happiness

"We don't enjoy things which are limited in nature

 because we have fear of its end.

 We don't know life's end, 

so enjoy life thoroughly with a good smile on your face"...Hrc 

What is Life?

Enjoying every single moment of present without thinking about past and worrying about future; is Life. When your mind is in present moment and you are completely memorizing the present moment, then only you are in present moment. But keep in mind that being in present moment is not a easy task, because present is always running with every second. Mind attracts to past because it is stable in time. Mind also attracts to future because we think; we can design future with respective to time.

Why we are not enjoying things which are limited in nature?

Ice cream candy is very familiar example for this. We enjoy ice cream candy when we purchase it. When candy is at its end, we can't enjoy it thoroughly, because the worry about its end surrounds us by sorrow. There is always sorrow somewhere in our mind that this candy is going to end one moment. This worry make it, not to enjoy candy thoroughly.

Example of vacations after long time, also surround us by sorrow most of time. When you are at start of vacations, you enjoy every day because you want get out of your office or study work frustration. But when end of vacations come near, your worry about "Whether these good days will come again in my life or not?" surrounds you by sorrow and you waste your last two or three days in worry; not in enjoyment, not in satisfaction and happiness of vacations.

How to come out of this worry?

All these examples of ice cream candy or vacations are just parts of our endless life. We are unable to enjoy them because we know its end or deadline. When we change our attitude to look things with "What we have at present; not what we will going to lose in future?", this may help us to enjoy every moment of life.

Our mind surrounded by sorrow when we know the end or deadline of a thing. "Is any one know end of his/her Life?" absolutely not. So enjoy life thoroughly, because it is endless, endless in case of joy, endless in love, endless in satisfaction. Life has end only in your mind's negative state, otherwise it is endless in nature.

Moral is:"Always have an attitude to see "What we have in our hand at present" don't worry about what we will going to lose in future because we haven't seen future yet and Life is always in present time, not in future."

Utilize your Love, Grid and Fear for Success

"Love, Grid, Fear can do anything from you.

 So those who are already in love, grid or fear must have control on them"...Hrc

Every one have love towards someone because love is nature of soul.

To know more about love check out "Love and its Simplicity".

Every one have grid towards something which sets his/her target of day to day life. Grid of desires which he/she want to achieve. This gird helps them to work more, shapes their skills and they move fast on path of success.

Most of the time successful human has fear of something. The businessmen have fear of loss, student of fear of fail, common man fear of expensiveness etc.
Means love, grid and fear are inseparable part of human life.

How should we utilize these for our success?

Love.
The spirituality says "Love drives the world". It has infinite power to dissolve everything. The work which is not possible by anger, can be done easily by love. In love, person always achieve more than he/she deserve. When we are in love, we become more transparent, more truthful, committed to loved one. So, if you convert your love in dedication for path of success; success will be near to you.

Grid.
Grid is power which makes your mind focused for achievement of desires for which we have grid. Unless and until you  haven't achieved the thing, grid for thing rarely stops in your mind. Most of time, grid makes you work more and more to satisfy your mind by achievement of desires. Your skills gets developed more because mind wants desired thing as early as possible. So, if you convert your desire or grid towards success position; success will be near to you in less time.

Fear.
Fear for something makes you to analyze environment more clearly than that of without fear. People always fear only to those things which they can't understand. Whenever they understand thing, then only they can plan to overcome fear towards that thing. This nature of fear and inability to understand thing (to which they fear) always makes them to create secure environment which can protect them from fear. This secure environment not only protects them from thing (to which they fear) but also improves their ability to create comfort, security not only for them but also for their loved ones. So, if you have fear, hate for failure; this fear makes to create comfort and security for your success and helps you to maintain your success position.         

Moral is:"There are abilities (love, grid and fear) in us. We just need an attitude to convert and use them as per our need."

Work, its Deadline and Happiness

"When we postpone our work or study,

 we feel good for current moment. 

But when time comes to complete work, we feel sad or bad. So, do your work on time"...Hrc

What is work?
Activities which we do at every moment is work. According to "Shrimad Bhagavat Gita" (Wikipedia link), one can't live any moment without work.

Why we postpone our work?
Most of the time we think there will be more time on tomorrow than today. So, we postpone our work. Is it really like that? All days has 24 hours. When we have no plan for tomorrow, we thought there will be more time on tomorrow than today. Still, when we have plan for tomorrow, our priority make us to postpone work for tomorrow.

Many of time people postpone their today's happiness for tomorrow. They think that, they should work today and will enjoy tomorrow in relax mood. Think sincerely with yourself, Is this really work?. We haven't seen tomorrow yet and we don't have control over time. Postponing happiness for tomorrow makes you sad for today and tomorrow has no end because exception of mind are more than what we think, mind's exceptions always change with time. So, never postpone your happiness for tomorrow.

Postpone office work for tomorrow.
When you postpone your daily office work, you may be feeling good and enjoying current moment, but when time comes; you need to complete work in frustration because your important work is urgent work now. When you are enjoying parties or your favorite joy, there is always worry that "can we enjoy same like today in future?". If you complete work today itself, you are free from worry and you can enjoy current moment.    

Postpone your love wish for tomorrow.
When you postpone your love wish for tomorrow, there are always chances to lose loved one. For details about love check out  "Love and its Simplicity". If you postpone your love wish, other person may present his/her wish with loved one. So, always express your love on time to be free from tension of losing some loved one.

Moral is:"Compete your work on time today itself, live your life for today and plan for tomorrow's happiness, joy; don't worry about work."

Love and its Simplicity

"Love is simple,

 but people make it complex;

when they have fear in mind to lose one to whom they love"...Hrc

What is Love?

When you have love on someone, it may be your friend, love for parent, love for pets; what it really mean? When you love someone, you enjoys his/her presence, you care him/her and mainly you don't want to lose his/her focus from you.

But when you think you are losing attention or focus of loved one, you create artificial environment to strengthen relation. But, are these things really needed? When you have fear to lose loved one, you makes relation more complex and artificial, so that both can't left each other. Love is nature of soul and soul already know what is better for it. But our tendency of adding artificiality and complexity overwrites soul nature and this seeds creation of distance in both loved ones.

Love is simple and deep in nature of soul. It is more than attraction of both, more than distraction in between both. If you both really love each other then have some faith in the relation. Love cures every problem in between. But when you have doubt on relation, you fears to lose loved one and makes love a complex thing.

Sweetness of love is in its simplicity and transparency of faith. Its not in complexity and artificiality of relation.   

Moral is: "Love is simple. Never create artificiality and complexity in love. When you have fear to lose loved one, have some faith in the relation, give some time for relation and every problem dissolves in time"

Universe and achievable Things

"Everything is achievable in this universe.

 Thought comes in our mind because it exists in this universe.

 It just near to achievement procedure which we need to follow."...Hrc

Why thoughts come in our min? Have you think on it before?

The thoughts of our mind are just reflection of what we have seen before. You never got any thought about the thing which we haven't seen before. If you are thinking, you got thought which you haven't seen or know about that; memorize the events well and you will find, you already know those things. The thing which already there in the universe and we have some clue about that, we get thoughts related to that only. 

Sometimes you think your imagination can violate this, but think sincerely to yourself; Haven't you copied your imagination from environment or nature? 

The true thing is, our soul is part of this universe and thoughts come in our mind, so it is also the part of our universe. Nothing is there in our thought which is not present in this universe and which we can't achieve.

What is achievable in this universe?

There is nothing in this universe which we can't achieve. If you have thought of something then it must be present in there. So, problem is not in thing but problem is in us. We always stuck in thoughts about- "How should we achieve it?" rather than we must concentrate on one path and follow it strictly. The post of "Success and Ways to achieve it" may help you know more about success and alternatives. Success or thing which we want to achieve is just near to the procedure of achievement. Mind always want alternatives to prove "why we can't achieve it?", if we control the mind and acquire knowledge about "how it should be achieved?", it will be more helpful to us.

Moral is: "Never get stuck in whether things to achieve is there in this universe or not. It is there in the universe and just near to achievement procedure we need to  follow strictly."

Photography and Life

"Photography is an art to capture an object good 

from where we are looking at it; not from where it looks good. 

Life is same like photography, 

capture all moments good in every situation and condition"...Hrc

Photography.

In the photography, we have camera with good specifications. If we give same specification camera to two photographers, still we get different photos of same object. Though the camera is same, object capturing ability and attitude is different of both photographers. The real photographer is one who captures photo well from where he is looking at object; not from where the object looks good.

Same applies to life also, the attitude to look at life; is camera in case of photography. The situations , people whom we are interacting in day to life are objects of life.
We must accept every situation of life and capture it well with our good attitude to look at situation. In life, we get rare chances to look at object from where it looks good. Most of the time we need to look at object good from our location. So, attitude of acceptance can make us happy, satisfied for all time.

Moral is: "Photography is skill to capture object good from where we are looking at it. In case of life, our attitude to look at object decides quality (ability to gain happiness from) of photo (situation/condition)."